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1. Plan your talking points ahead of time.
There are always a few family members that are more difficult to talk to, so it is a great idea to think of some conversation topics ahead of time. The best topics avoid politics, religion and your personal life (if those are things you need to avoid with your family). Try speaking about the weather, the delicious food in front of you, or reminiscing over past family events.
2. Make sure you get a good seat at the table.
If you are sitting around a large, crowded table for Thanksgiving, your location can be a crucial part of the holiday experience. The center of the table may ensure lively conversation, though you also may be stuck passing plates every few minutes. An end seat may help you avoid certain family members, but you also may feel isolated.
3. Plan activities.
Another way of avoiding unwanted conversations, everyone sitting awkwardly around the TV or hovering over the cook, is planning fun family activities. A great suggestion is some kind of craft or a game that suits a large group. Charades is always a crowd-pleaser, as is Jenga, or a card game like Uno.
4. Dress Appropriately.
There is certainly a science to both looking nice for the holiday, while also wearing a comfortable outfit that accommodates the large quantity of food you are sure to inhale. Loose clothing, in a color that will not stain easily, is typically the safest option. Be sure to avoid anything the older generations may critique, such as distressed denim or certain graphic tees.
5. Ask the questions you have always wanted to ask.
Thanksgiving is all about family, so it’s a great time to ask your grandmother, uncle, cousin or anyone else about themselves. Not only will they appreciate your curiosity, but you will likely learn something you may have never expected from a family member.
